.: lifeofabitch :.

27 February 2011

okay, i'm now 70% sure i'm overreacting.

well, it's kinda natural to do that. i mean ppl usually jump into conclusions without any prior info and likewise, i do not know anything to safely conclude. being judgmental is a part of human emotions and i see it as sorta a natural reflex for the unforseen eg. changes in life. and with that comes the good old question: why? and that you start blaming yourself for it. which is that 30% there...

but still, one has still to question why...

i mean, you see that as time passed since last year arnd this month, things got more distant... there were convos, debates gym buddy, study buddy. wow, then it just became gym invites only. then it became gym invites with a third party aka repetitions of "ask joey". now since joey's gone it became silence. at most, convos became merely hi and bye.

he still talks to otehr ppl. not all i might add. he's ignoring a lot, but mostly still talk to some... hmmm... how odd... come to think of it, he only talks to the barker ppl + his church mates only.

he acts as if his phone is spoilt. he never replies me anymore, not even a 'no, sry im busy'. he expects me to know that without him saying. these are clues that show he avoiding me. but when i hear he's not replying to a lot of other ppl, i thought, hey, he's just a douche. but then some others say, he's replying me leh. so i thought, wow, he's an even bigger douche. but no, i keep telling myself he may have some problems he's not willing to expose...

sian. he's pimpling too fyi. if you're pimpling during the holidays you knw something is wrong. but of course, i'm not at liberty to do anything.

i'm really trying my best now to just back off. cuz i see no true solution past this stage. i wont say its gone case, but really nothing much can be done.... but it's really not helping if i keeep seeing him every weekend now, isnt it? it's like every day, i tell myself to be happy in my own solitude (i just learnt that word bwahaha) then he comes along and just push me back down. not literally of course. its like i see him and i suddenly rmb how tight we were and now its like gone. its the harshness of reality that hurts.

now he's gymming by himself. no need for partners. no need for assistance. i tried to help him just now when he seem troubled benching, but he said he got it, which was, in my mind, a big middle finger to fuck off.

wow, it's kinda hard to say now that though you may not need me anymore, i need you man. i need a gym buddy to push me. but more imptly, i need a friend. a friend who was there for me like you were. a friend who isnt jugdemental with my choices in life and supports me instead. a friend who know how to save a brother when he's falling down.

i'm really curios as to what happened and why is this happening...

with convos restricted to hi and bye, and with such raging history, i dont think i can ever have another h2h with him again. i can try talking, but i think he'll try his best to cut the convo short. what a douchebag.

but i mean srsly talking here, can u imagine that the awkwardness of that happenening? how would you react if someone tells you whatever i just said above? you'll most likely be speechless afterwhich you'll give the 'it's okay, blablabla' speech. how do you even initiate such a talk... 'hey man, can i talk to you? you see, i need you right now... blablabla' he'll be like 'wtf? why so random'. and how does it go afterwards? what if the talk doesnt end well? are you able do console the person afterwards? wont a hug make it even more awkward? and if it does end well though, how do you transition out of the h2h? i mean, the awkwardness will still be there... and esp since you'll be pretty much repeating your texts of which he's avoiding from, you'll just scare the person away....

sian. part of me still wanna try correct things though... :/

and no taylor, i do not wanna go 'back to december all the time' cause i had the worst month ever back then and revisiting it would be a nightmare, or many of them back to back...

i have a very apt song right now. it's currently my fav. <3 its called i need a doctor, by dr dre feat. eminem and skylar grey:

[Chorus - Skylar Grey]
I'm about to lose my mind
you've been gone for so long
I'm running out of time
I need a doctor
call me a doctor
I need a doctor, doctor
to bring me back to life

[Eminem]
I told the World one day I would pay it back
say it on tape, and lay it, record it
so that one day I could play it back
but I don't even know if I believe it when I'm saying that
ya'll starting to creep in, everyday its so grey and black
hope, I just need a ray of that
cause no one see's my vision when I play it for 'em
they just say its wack
they don't know what dope is
and I don't know if I was awake or asleep
when I wrote this,
all I know is you came to me when I was at my lowest
you picked me up, breeding life in me
I owe my life to you
before the life of me, I don't see why you don't see like I do
but it just dawned on me you lost a son
see this light in you, it's dark.
let me turn on the lights and brighten me and enlighten you
I don't think you realize what you mean to me
not the slightest clue
cause me and you were like a crew
I was like your sidekick
you gon either wanna fight me when I get off this fucking mic
or you gon hug me
but I'm not an option, there's nothing else I can do cause...

[Chorus - Skylar Grey]
I'm about to lose my mind
you've been gone for so long
I'm running out of time
I need a doctor
call me a doctor
I need a doctor, doctor
to bring me back to life

[Eminem]
It hurts when I see you struggle
you come to me with ideas
you say there just pieces so I'm puzzled
cause the shit I hear is crazy
but your either getting lazy or you don't believe in you no more
seems like your own opinions, not one you can form
cant make a decision you keep questioning yourself
second guessing and its almost like your begging for my help
like I'm your leader
your supposed to fucking be my mentor
I can endure no more,
I demand you remember who you are
it was YOU, who believed in me
when everyone was telling you don't sign me
everyone at the fucking label, lets tell the truth
you risked your career for me
I know it as well as you
nobody wanted to fuck with the white boy
Dre, I'm crying in this booth
you saved my life, now maybe its my turn to save yours
but I can never repay you, what you did for me is way more
but I ain't giving up faith and you ain't giving up on me
get up Dre, I'm dying, I need you, come back for fuck's sake

[Chorus - Skylar Grey]
I'm about to lose my mind
you've been gone for so long
I'm running out of time
I need a doctor
call me a doctor
I need a doctor, doctor
to bring me back to life
bring me back to life
bring me back to life

(I need a doctor, doctor
to bring me back to life)

[Dr Dre]
It literally feels like a lifetime ago
but I still remember the shit like it was just yesterday though
you walked in, yellow jump suit
whole room, cracked jokes
once you got inside the booth, told you, like smoke
went through friends, some of them I put on
but they just left, they said they was riding to the death
but where the fuck are they now
now that I need them, I don't see none of them
all I see is Slim
fuck all you fair-weather friends
all I need is him
fucking backstabbers
when the chips were down you just laughed at us
now you bout to feel the fucking wrath of aftermath, faggots
you gon see us in our lab jackets and ask us where the fuck we been?
you can kiss my indecisive ass crack maggots and the crackers ass
little crack a jack beat making wack math,
backwards producers, I'm back bastards
one more CD and then I'm packing up my bags and as I'm leaving
I'll guarantee they scream Dre don't leave us like that man cause...

[Chorus- Skylar Grey]
I'm about to lose my mind
you've been gone for so long
I'm running out of time
I need a doctor
call me a doctor
I need a doctor, doctor
to bring me back to life

see how the lyrics coincides with my life right now? ^^ but i have other great friends right now. i'm very thankful to those helping me out right now...

... 2:29 am